Do not merely take up space.

Learn new things about the natural world.

Read and enjoy the stories of others.

Make new friends and cherish old friends.

Be a good husband. Be peaceful and care for Cheryl. Provide kind and empathetic help to her.

Be kind even when it is hard to do so.

Be a good father. Be interested but not intrusive in my children’s lives.

Love others and learn about their difficulties

Seize the moment and cherish the good days and times, ignore the bad times

Plan but do not worry about the future.